Communication is an Art!

NEWSLETTER TWENTY SEVEN

Communication is the process of sharing information, ideas, and messages between individuals or groups. It involves the transmission and reception of messages through various channels, such as speaking, writing, gestures, or electronic means, However, have you ever had a conversation with someone in the same language and they did not hear you?  Or they did not understand you?  Or you felt like, were they listening at all?  Have you ever felt they were listening to you intently but did not understand you?  You know they are listening cause they ask questions, but they still do not understand and you both are frustrated, but they were really trying to understand you. 

Can you relate to this?  Communication is an art.

Have you ever spoken to someone about something you were upset about and maybe you just wanted to be consoled and instead if you were on the phone they were on mute cause they were doing something else.  So were they listening?  You may want to hear words like, I can understand you.

I can relate to that situation.  Or it will get better.  Or maybe you just need a hug.  How many times in your life have you been talking to someone and all you needed was a hug or someone to say, I am here for you?  What did you receive?  

Have you sometimes felt like were they listening at all?  Did they hear you?  What did they hear?  Did they hear something completely different than what you said? 

Did you feel like they were not even listening?  Did you feel like they did not understand what you said or meant?

Did you feel like you were misunderstood?  Did that conversation go into an argument and how many times has that happened to you?  Did you feel like was there anyone here that really heard you and understood what you were trying to relay to them?

How many times in our own language and conversation do you feel this happens?  

Communication is really an art as I mentioned above. 

Even if it is your own language you may feel like you were misunderstood.  

They did not hear nor really understand what you were trying to say or needed.  Maybe they listened but what they heard was something completely different than what you meant.  Did you ever feel like maybe what you relayed to them, was something so out of their range that they really could never understand what you meant by it, but you didn’t know that until you spoke about it.  Maybe you know them for years and thought they would understand or really heard what you were trying to convey or say and they did not?

How many times did you speak about something and the person did understand?  Really heard you.  Consoled you.  Understood what you meant and understood what you were trying to say?

However, with the times they did not understand you, nor heard you, nor understand what you really meant, or it was like you were speaking two different languages, well those times leave you feeling lonely and alone, abandoned, misunderstood, unhappy, devastated, like why don’t you have friends.  Why isn’t anyone understanding you or here for you?  Why is this always happening?  Why are there so many miscommunications in one’s own language.  Everyone comes with different needs and values at different times.

Communication is really an art.  It is an art how to communicate and how to say things and sometimes you can say what you want to someone and it doesn’t come across the way you wanted it to.  Can you relate to that?

Can you imagine, I speak 3 languages and well you could say Animal Communication is a 4th language and I am in a Country where I do not even speak the language which makes it even more difficult right now.  So imagine, you are trying to speak to your pawsome furry friend and you are like me right now not even able to communicate, because I don’t speak Bulgarian yet. So you feel lost.

So I mentioned Communication and communicating with people and how often conversations seem like you might have not been heard, or understood, or the person was listening but really did not get it for some reason or did not know what you wanted.  If we do not practice to intensify our intuitive abilities we will not have the connection and communication with our furry friends.  It is like all those conversations with someone that you felt misunderstood.  Your pawsome furry friends will feel misunderstood and you may not give them what was really needed .. what would really help them feel more:

secure

less abandoned

loved

less bored

happier

feeling at home

also heard

relaxed

in harmony

healthier

in peace

assured that nothing will happen to them

feeling like they are heard

taken care of

Really understood, their needs are cared for….

and the list goes on.. you get my point?  So understanding and really hearing the needs of your furry friends is just as vital as when you would like your needs taken care of.  Just as you wish someone understood your desires.. and what you really wanted or needed, or whatever it is you wanted that you were taken care of.  That you felt happier, understood, consoled, at home, in peace, loved and cared for, they need and want the same and you could give that to them when you learn their language and how to properly communicate with them.

So JOIN US on our next Animal Communication Class… September 16th at 1 p.m. New York time.https://mailchi.mp/ec7bdcf9880b/xstz5f4cfy

Pawsitively yours,

Barbara Kurtman

International Best Selling Author

The Animal Communicator

International Stress Release Coach

International Life Coach

The Meow and Woof Chronicles Team

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